Ive come to notice as time has passed that people talk in the tongue of bullshit and claim it as truths. The things that come out of their mouths are merely hostile projections onto you, as how they feel about themselves. The guy that calls you a bitch for not trusting him is the guy thats acting like a bitch himself because hes actually lying to your face and then making you feel like its your issue. When someone says 'theyll deal with it' , that means they plan on doing nothing. The girl that calls you a fish face is really commenting on how unattractive she is/feels. She who feels like they have control, actually has no control over herself. Those that say they stand up for the good of the people and whats right really mean they only bitch when something doesn't go their way. Those that have accused you of living in the past are the ones stuck in the reruns, secretly wishing for the days of yore. Those that say they are happy but hate on everything you do are the ones that can't let go, can't move on, which simply means, they are NOT happy and want a life different than their own. She who says she hates childish drama, is the one that creates to live off of. Those that feel the need to tell everyone and anyone about how great they are/their life is, is hoping if they say it enough, people will believe that bullshit, and maybe they will believe it themselves. Some People lie. Some People lie to each other. Some People lie to themselves. What these type of people say to try to hurt you is only what they really hate about themselves. Dust it off ya shoulda. Life is short. Is the excitement of the drama really worth losing who you are? If you add up all your lies, are you richer? No. Just more deluded than ever.
In a relationship, you never fully know whats going on, what the other person does, thinks, feels. You only know what they want you to know. Thats where trust comes in. My trust is not given out, it is earned. When I trust someone, and their actions show differently than their words, I feel I cant trust them. Or, their words, at least. Actions never lie, and people need to be held accountable for their actions. How they can be honest with me, let alone themselves, if they refuse to acknowledge their doing? Im not saying it is always intentional, no, Im saying that when it is brought to your attention, maybe a little introspection and honesty wouldnt hurt. Its more than just husband/wife, boyfriend/girlfriend, its about being a decent human being. Its about respecting another person in this huge world, you care about. Its about, loving, learning, and being true.
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